The Worst Commander in Chief in History
78God Bless the USA: My Husband Mark (on the rt.) and son Alex (in the middle) honored at a Red Wings Game.
Our son had two weeks of R&R (the Army acronym for “Rest and Relaxation”) from Afghanistan. Thankfully – he considers our home in Lansing “home” so he told his new wife – if you stay with my mother and father in Lansing – I’ll go there for my R&R and then we all can be together.
So Kristen and our little granddaughter came to stay with us in November. We waited for our wonderful son to come home to us – to come home to his new wife and his little girl who is now almost nine months old. He left when she was less than a month old.
My son’s unit is the 4/23rd Infantry Battalion – Stryker Brigade, US Army. Alex has seen things no one should ever have to see. His life, and the life of the other soldiers in his unit are constantly on the line over there. They are boots on the ground, infantry, dodging bullets, bombs and living like animals. They sacrifice all for our country and as I’ve always said – for complete strangers. They’re not only willing to die for their loved ones and family – they are willing to die to maintain the rights and the liberty of complete strangers. It takes a very special kind of person to become a soldier.
Our daughter Allie works for the Tampa Bay Rays – and she was able to arrange (with her contacts in Detroit, Michigan) – to the surprise of both my husband and son – a wonderful tribute to them by the Detroit Red Wings. The video you see was taken by Allie. I can not watch it without crying, and I mean the tears streaming down my face crying.
It was a packed Red Wings stadium and they all got to their feet and cheered for my husband then an active duty Colonel in the Army recently back from a year in Iraq, my son a SPC in the Army home from Afghanistan for two weeks and another wonderful soldier.
You may have been listening to the news that the Stryker Brigade is going to very dangerous places lately. I can’t believe my son is in this unit – it’s so different when it’s your BABY – but he is. I won’t share the few things he told while home – I had to pray WHILE he relayed some of what he saw and was a part of. I wanted to run from the room screaming – but I listened and my heart went out to my son – a young man of 22 who has lost some good friends and has seen a glimpse of hell. He's also seen his share of pure evil.
My parallel concern is that my son and so many other heroes are risking so much for our country and all this President talks about and works on is a sweeping health care reform bill that the American people do not want!
This is an outrage that goes beyond anger. I have
to fight hating this President – the Commander-in-Chief who acts less like a
Commander-in-Chief than any other President in my life-time and probably in
history. I venture to say he will probably go down in history as being THE worst Commander in Chief the U.S. has ever had to date.
At a time when our country is at war – he never stops with his Obama care – something the American people have made so clear that the vast majority hates, didn’t ask for and definitely does not want.
I wish I could talk to him. If I could I would say: Your obsession Mr. President -- with something that is not wanted and is not nearly as important as our national security is mind boggling.
I would even understand if you had become obsessed with the economy. I could at
least understand the need to help all the unemployed hurting Americans. There
would be some comfort in knowing you care for a cause that is bigger and more
important than yourself.
Instead, you have spent a year touting this ridiculous socialist-like take-over of our country by attempting to introduce a sweeping health care bill. If you had taken one fraction of your time meeting with, planning and executing strategies to WIN the war on terror perhaps we wouldn’t be losing lives in Iraq and Afghanistan as we have. Did you even notice it has escalated? The death toll Mr. President. I’m talking about the deaths of young and not so young, heroic men and women. My impression is, even if you had noticed, you don’t care. But what would you know of such a thing? Heroism I refer to. I suppose you believe trying to quit smoking is heroic…
In one year of your Presidency Mr. Obama, you can take credit that 30% of all the 8 year Afghanistan war causalities occurred since you took office. That’s 30% of ALL CASUALITIES President Obama – on your stinking watch! Why President Obama, aren’t you spending much more of your time trying to DECREASE those numbers? How DO you sleep at night?
You are a national disgrace Mr. Obama, I am so very sorry to say. You make President Nixon look like an angel. Your narcissistic, ego-feeding attempt to make a program for some type of legacy you’ve dreamed up is despicable. Oh, did I mention it is something the American people by a vast majority do not want in any way shape or form?
My Son Alex told me he slept out on the dirt and sand for a month while they built a Forward Operating Base. My Son who takes a shower every day under normal conditions said, he finds sand and grit in places he didn’t think possible while in Afghanistan.
And he’s also told me he has watched the life leave the eyes of a dying soldier.
I pray every day that someone will not one day tell me they saw the same in my son’s eyes.
You have no clue President Obama what it is like for his wife to wait here in the United States, with a Commander in Chief who is incapable of doing anything other than feed his own ego. She waits and prays no one will come to the door to tell her that her husband has been killed.
You are incapable of actually being the Commander in Chief and taking charge of a situation that needs much of your attention! I do not understand why you are not relieved of your duties because you are an utter failure thus far.
I pray you will somehow, by some miracle, wake up and you will have a conscience and get about the things that are important, essential and need to be addressed in this country. The War on Terror would be just about number 1 and the hurting economy that is teetering on destruction – an economy you have made dramatically worse by tripling the national debt during your first year -- would be a close second.
Health care? While it is something that should be addressed, it could never be more important than those who have sacrificed all and who are prepared to sacrifice all to protect the very liberties and freedoms that made someone like you President of the United States. They - our military -- deserve so much more of your time and attention Mr. President. So much more!
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I agree with you. And though I wish we could set Afghanistan and Iraq on a good course, I know it won't happen in the short time Obama has allowed. Moreso, Obama knows that. So our men and women are suffering and dying for no good reason. If he was an honest man, Obama would have said, I don't want us in those wars and we're pulling out immediately. At least that would have saved our troops.
I saw my parents cry many tears when my brother was in Vietnam twice and Desert Storm once. He came home wounded twice. The worry never ends when they are serving in a war.
You are very right about how the Afghan war should be Obama's absolute number one priority.
Our soldiers deserve our best....because they are our best.
cjv...How proud you must be with a warrior son such as yours...I noticed in the pic of him with his wife and child, that his smile was a carbon copy of yours...
Stryker teams are at the pointy end of combat operations...My prayers for him and his fellow strykers as they lay it on the line for all of us...
I saw micro-management of the war in Vietnam...a tactic that undermined the morale and efficiency of those in the trenches...the unbelievable directive from administration officials, completely unknowledgeable of hot, intense, close combat, that Miranda warnings must be given in situ is ridiculously and dangerously naive...Leave the tactics to the men in the field, let the administration consider strategy under advisement from our Joint Chiefs...I've seen this before and it makes me sick.
God bless your son and Semper Fi from this old Marine...Larry
cjv123 - Thank you for sharing straight from your heart. It is moving & emotionally engaging. May the God of all grace & protection surround your son & keep him safe; may the peace that transcends all understanding blossum in your heart.
cj, your family makes me proud to be american. given the youth and health back, i would gladly serve by your son's side and/or under your husbands command. my time to serve has gone, but i tried to get into desert storm and iraqi freedom. they said i was to old and busted up. hell i can still shoot.
I hope your son keeps safe over there. Thanks for sharing. Obama is a disgrace, and the media is even more disgraceful. If one person died in Iraq with Bush they were calling the war a lost cause. Now with Obama the news doesn't even cover the war on terror.
Excellent article. Thaks for sharing. Prayers are out for all.
How Cool! Thank your husband for us too! You are the real thing! We are so lucky to have Patriots like your family protecting us! Next step, Can The CIC!
I got chills up my back reading this. Your passion shows and I salute you for having to withstand all this. You have a brave family and I wish your son the best and that he comes home safely once again. His dedication (and your husbands) is what made America strong and proud and I for one will never forget. God Bless!
Thank you for sharing your pain. You are correct. President Obama does not see or does not care to see past his so called health care bill. We saw normally healthy teenage children die in Texas from the Swine flu. The doctors were not allowed to give them the medicine to save them without loosing their license to practice. Yet Obama's children got the vaccine, so did he and his wife. Obama's health care bill is geared to kill all that are not able to work and give the government money via income tax. He has a death wish and all our boys/girls fighting to preserve the rights of others are unimportant to him. I will pray not only for your son but all that are fighting for freedom of persecuted individuals, even if he might come home to find ours gone. God Bless you and your family.
Awesome stuff!!!
i agree 100 percent with you your family has given alot to our country and polls and stats are showing that war vets are not finding jobs and are unemployed more than non vets im sure im not the only one who thinks this is a gross violation of our soldiers sacrifice we should be worried about jobs and the fact that obamas stimulus package failed i think any unemployment among our vets is unacceptable
I thank you for this Hub and I thank your son for his service to our nation. As for Obama, I don't care for his ideas one bit. He is surely a Socialist. His ideas will ruin our great country.
Many thanks to you and your family, and all our men and women in uniform. This President and the democraps are about to take us down a road I never thought I would see in this country. I have a Canadian friend and even he said he can not believe what he is seeing going on here and where we are headed.
Thank you for your article.. we all can only hope and pray and push to get our country back on track. We must stand together.
Sounds like your just as obsessed over this matter as a president is over healthcare. Not being rude I do understand where you are coming from but you are passionate about this matter because of your son, you are directly effected by war. Have you put yourself in the shoes of someone that couldn't afford healthcare and lost their child because of it or lost everything else because of the debt they incurred? Insurance companies are just as much to blame for our down falling economy as president'S are for war. Ever seen the movie John Q? That was a passionate parent as well. My uncles 10 yr old son needed his gallbladder out, (emergency surgery)he had no insurance, a 25,000 dollar bill bankrupted my uncle he lost his home, and two cars while people were saying bush was obsessed with war.
Also I believe the majority that supported putting Mr. Obama in office are still the majority supporting his health care plan, to say the majority of the nation does not want it I believe is false after all it is moving forward for a reason. Rich people are against it and that is all.
wow lots of percentages thrown around lol. I guess all I can say is that there are those of us willing to give more for the good of the whole and those who are content with what they have until by chance or fate they become a have not. Because you made such an unbelievable comment insisting the president and Democrats that voted for it never even read it simply, to me, discredits any opinion you could possibly have, you are simply repeating what you have heard By like minded opposers lol. I'd bet my life's earnings u couldn't accuse the president to his face sitting at the same table that he has never read something that would effect the entire nation. Since when are presidents only responsible for war and not other issues? From the moment I heard this man speak I told everyone he will be the next president, he will never take our guns away, he will serve 2 terms, he will take power away from the greedy pigs of the corporate world that are bleeding humanity to death that you clearly support. I told everyone y2k was a joke its clear what that money making hoax was about, I knew bush was leading us to war under false pretenses, which became clear. I dare to say most repubs are against Obama more than they should be because he is black and no one will convince me otherwise but that's another story. I'm sure you grew up Republican because your father did and I'm sure you are the same religion u were raised to be, my point is your beliefs have been influenced your whole life so it is not I who has been misinformed for I am and always will be an independent thinker. Fyi I have served the United States Army's infantry in Ft. Benning, GA. I would give my life to defend this nation, sad that I feel American insurance companies, doctors, banks are our biggest enemies, but you keep supporting them. Obama did not send your son to war.
lol sorry I dont have all the time in the world to respond immediately to hubpages.
truth is you said if this is christian then I don't want any part of it, but you are still christian, cause you were raised to be, catholics believe in jesus to, if you turned into a buddhist then I'd believe you were trying to be opposite of your dad. lol and your still republican like your father was...and his racist values rubbed off on you wether you liked it or not to an extent. you know in your heart what i mean. And yes Most Repubs are racist, thats why the majority of repubs are white people, no knee jerk there :) Im from Idaho and repubs here don't even really try to hide it lol
you found that the truth of gods word was in the bible, you mean the same bible that has been involved in millions of murders throughout history in the name of the lord?? lol I'm sure the word of god is in there lol your just irrational in your beliefs. whites have always believed in the bible even while lynching and burning innocent people randomly, but they were christian. saying your christian doesn't mean anything to me sorry. I am more rational than you i promise :)
I just happen to see that this health care reform will help more than it will hurt. I don't feel sorry for the rich people that will have to pay a little bit more, you act like it's going to break you or something lol I'm sure you pay more on your cosmetics and dinner and a movie nights, don't worry it's helping people that are less fortunate than you. just give up your mary k... wwjd?
your comment here "He is not only the President of ALL the people, his other official title is Commander in Chief, not Doctor in Chief, not Care-Taker of all who can not afford to pay their doctor's bills. He is NOT doing his job and that is to BE the Commander in Chief" and here "But the JOB of President Bush and President Obama is to PROTECT THIS COUNTRY when we are at war. They are the TOP man or woman of the military in that office. They are not the TOP DOCTOR." these comments are why I assumed you were implying that presidents should only be in charge of war, leave the rest to doctors and nurses. That was my COMPREHENSION of it. you think Obama should just take over where bush left off being a war pig? once again Obama did not send your son to war...OBAMA DID NOT SEND YOUR SON TO WAR...BUSH DID BUSH DID BUSH DID. Bush created these problems, not the black guy lol
to call me a lemming is like calling yourself christian. I don't believe in fairy tales nor do i follow any crowd, we have proof you do miss christian republican. You proved my point simply by admitting your father was a racist republican thats too funny, your still christian and republican, catholic christian mormon they all play the same game just different team names.
arguing over whether there are more greedy pigs as liberal democrats vs brainwashed republicans is just asinine lol
yes al gore made piles of cash off educating the public about global warming, its better than making piles off y2k and weapons of mass destruction b.s. Global warming is obvious anyone with opened eyes can see the physical effects of this planet. sounds like you disagree tho, typical of people who would rather make an evangelist scam artist rich over someone trying to help mother nature. Go ahead give your money to your church, instead of something that will actually accomplish something. Religion leads to confusion, confusion leads to extremism, extremism leads to terrorism, all religions are guilty of this and you happen to support one of them. But you don't wanna help the insurance reform??? sounds like your heart is not with Jesus, Money is more important. It's all about money...
This is why I am happy, "In my mind I am truly the richest man in the world, I know no greed because I have everything that I could not live without, I know no envy because I could never give up or trade what I already have" and I don't have a lot of money believe me, but that comes from my heart. Thats why I could be flat broke but still want to help as many as I can. you choose your charities with a prejudice lol.
I have 5 children and they have pure hearts, I'm not clouding their judgement with stories from a book, a book responsible for more death than anything, but your beliefs are better than mine :) my heart has never been deceived I thank my parents for that :) religion deceives hearts. Dont get me wrong I believe in a creator but not what man has told me I should believe while he molests a little boy in his bedroom
my uncle didn't have catastrophic coverage cause he barely had enough money to buy mary k for his wife lol and sunny delight for his 4 children.
heres my thoughts on pelosi and obama lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C1mTjWg-gh4&feature
Oh and you cannot hear crickets on the internet.
the foundation of your beliefs have been handed down for generation after generation, they may have been diluted and tweaked some but they are still more jacked up than the foundations of my beliefs. go read your bible and close your eyes to fact that millions suffer without insurance, not all of them are pieces of crap, i promise. Did Jesus discriminate? or was it just the people that murdered him?
Sitting down, Jesus called the Twelve and said, "If anyone wants to be first, he must be the very last, and the servant of all." last I checked servants aren't rich, Jesus was the richest man in the world, and had no money... and to think I'm not even religious and I understand what Jesus was all about. And I do love him for that :) Health care reform if goes the way it should, it will stop greedy insurance companies with there extremely rich CEO's, and doctors from taking advantage of the less fortunate...we are here because of them. Bernie Maddoffs everywhere, "Greed and Envy will kill you before you die"
well in closing I am tired of arguing back and forth with people who claim to be christian and live nothing like Jesus. "Obama is not a brown-skinned anti-war socialist who gives away free healthcare. You're thinking of Jesus." John Fugelsang. and this is why I do in fact LOVE Bill Maher :) enjoy!! http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=10835695 enjoy your "rights" and your cosmetics.
cjv,
A wonderful writing, as usual. Your family is very special, and I'm glad the Red Wings honored Mark.
I'm sorry you have to put up with the comment of people like philosotographer. I understand he speaks for Jesus (his Hebrew is not good), and you must be the devil. Some people will never get it. Please don't write me phil.
Thank you for an intelligent hub. It's so sad that war is more a business matter than of "taking care of business" regardless of who is in office. If we MUST have a Democrat as President, let's have another Truman, who knew how to end war!
Sorry I have to agree with Philos. There is no draft anymore so anyone who is serving in the military now chose to do so by their own accord. President Obama did not start this war, just left to clean up the remaining mess left by bush, who is living the good life here in Dallas. Healthcare is important. Are you actually insinuating that your sons life is worth more than Philos uncles son simply by reason of you having money to buy health insurance. That is exactly the reason healthcare reform was needed. As for savings it has been impossible to save money in the past eight years of bushisim...I think the title of Worst Commander in chief has to be reserved for Bush. He stood on the destroyer and told Iraq to bring it...okay they brought it...we're still there. President Obama didn't make this mess. We have blamed him for everything except world hunger,guess that comes later. Even though all of the men and women serving should be honored ( I also have three nephews and two nieces serving in Iraq with spouses and small children waiting for them) I can't blame the President, it was a choice they made from their hearts.
Regards,
Chris
Hi CJV, I only just found your hub in the "Related Hubs" area when reading another. The title caught my attention-and I'm so glad that it did!
Your writing is passionate, heartfelt and 100% true. I read through the comments as well-I've been arguing for 2 weeks about the health care bill in one of my hubs and finally told them both to not come back. It got to the point of me being accused of being a bad American and another questioning my "love of humanity" and questioning me as a nurse because I do not support that God-awful bill.
Anyway, thanks for this wonderful hub and an even bigger "thank you" to your son and husband. I'll be praying for your son and his/ the Stryker Brigade's safety. In the end, God will sort it all out-no more war, no more dying, no more inequities. Until then, we can only live as we're taught and offer up our prayers!

























breakfastpop Level 8 Commenter 2 years ago
Dear cjv,
Your passionate and moving words rocked me to my core. You have a beautiful family and you are all American heroes in the truest sense of the word. I have never heard a President talk less about a war that we are engaged in than Obama. He is indifferent and detached and it has to strike at the hearts of every soldier out there putting their lives on the line. I will pray for the safe return of your son.